Before I Was a Mom
Before I was a mom, I sailed on dreams,
Charted seas in starlit beams.
My hours were mine to lose or keep,
Nights full, yet filled with sleep.
I read books from start to end,
Plans stood firm, schedules would bend.
Coffee lingered on my tongue,
Silent suppers savored, unsung.
Shoes were tidy, lined with care,
Impromptu outings pulled from thin air.
My thoughts were loud, my world was wide,
Adventures born from whims I’d ride.
But now the tides have softly turned,
New depths of love from me are learned.
Chaos sweet and time well worn,
A heart reshaped the day you were born.
Meaning
Before I Was a Mom poem explores the transformation experienced by a woman transitioning into motherhood. It contrasts the independence and spontaneity of her life before becoming a mom with the deep, fulfilling—but chaotic—love that defines her new role. Each stanza reflects a change in priorities and the profound shift in her identity, celebrating the growth and joy that parenthood brings.
Inspiration Behind
I wanted to express the bittersweet nostalgia of life before motherhood and the profound impact of the transition. Reflecting on my own experiences and those shared by friends, the contrast between ‘then’ and ‘now’ felt rich with emotion and truth. It’s about the silent trade-offs, the unexpected joys, and the reshaping of one’s universe around this new, tiny center. A universal story, yet deeply personal.
